I went to a New Zealand fashion week event last week. It was the Breast Cancer Cure Designer Showcase, and it was kinda great because any of the clothes that were sent down the runway, you could basically head out to the shops and buy them that day.

There was a huge variety of kiwi designers including Trelise Cooper, Moochi, Storm and more.

It was also great because It was the first “fashion week” I have attended, and it was quite fashiony. Lots of people dressed up and excited, including me.

But was it inclusive?

When I first started out in my HR career the “big deal” at the time was culture fit. Did people fit the culture. Would they fit in? Or not?

Of course you first had to define the culture which in itself was a tricky thing because many parts of an organisational culture are not tangible, and often hard to explain. I still talk about one job that I left after 12 months, despite knowing I didn’t “fit” from day one. I still find it very hard to explain why I didn’t fit that culture even with some distance and maturity.

Back in high school my grade 8 art teacher wrote on my end of year report card that I had "a fiery nature when called for". I had spoken up when she punished the whole class for the behaviour of a couple of boys. I wasn't having it.

It's risky to speak up. To create a fuss. To move towards the tension, rather than away from it. Few people want to do this.